Your Tastes Will Change

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Today, a short post on something very simple: trying foods you dislike a second or third time. This came to me a week or so ago when I got my CSA box. In it were cherries. I’ve never liked cherries. I always liked cherry flavoring. Hated cherries. So when I first saw the cherries in there, I thought, “I suppose Brian [a friend in the CSA with me] will be getting a bag of cherries.” Then I reconsidered and tried one. Well, to Brian’s dismay, I loved them, so he only got his rightful half of the bag we received.
But it made me think. I could have went with my first instinct and just passed them along, knowing that I hate them anyway. Instead, I popped one in my mouth and thoroughly enjoyed it. Strawberries were another food that I never really enjoyed until about 2 years ago. Strawberry flavoring was good. Strawberries, not so much. It was something about the texture. Now I eat strawberries with abandon.
Olives are another food that I couldn’t eat before. Too pungent. Now I can sit and eat olives straight from the jar. What’s the reason for these three (among many) changes in taste?
Why Does It Happen?
One theory, which up until a few hours was the one I’d heard and believed, is that our taste buds are refreshed every seven years. It turns out that’s an old wives’ tale, likely made up by a mother trying to get her kids to eat a bit of broccoli or some lima beans. Another urban legend is that the tongue is mapped into regions that taste sweet, salty, bitter, sour, and umami. Putting salt on the tip of your tongue should be enough to prove that wrong.
Of course, there’s another, more realistic, possibility than that my taste buds magically changed. I finally quit assaulting my taste buds with overly sweet and overly salty foods and learned to appreciate the natural flavors and textures of foods. There was certainly an adjustment period when I first cleaned up my diet. I found foods rather bland and boring, but kept eating them for the sake of eating the right stuff. I think my palate has finally acclimated itself to real foods.
One final theory: the more foods you try, the more your taste buds get used to enjoying new foods. My diet is so much broader now than it was even a year or two ago. Maybe working the taste buds makes them “stronger”.
So the real question is, do the taste buds actually change what they’re tasting or does our cognitive interpretation of that taste change? Hmm…perplexing, though in the end, it’s an irrelevant question. One thing is for sure. The sense of taste dulls as you age, whether due to a dulling of the taste buds or a dulling of the sense of smell.
How Do You Know When It’s Time To Try Something Again?
It’s always time to try something again. The absolute worst case scenario is that your mouth will revolt again and you’ll spit it out. I have heard a theory that parents should have their child try a particular food eight times on different occasions (and not eight days in a row) before accepting “I don’t like that.”
The same rule should hold for adults. You never know if you just didn’t like the way it was prepared, the way it was presented, something else in the meal that left a bad taste in your mouth, or perhaps your tastes were just off that day. So try it again a week later. If you steamed the broccoli you (or your kids) hated last time, try it stir-fried or raw.
So the whole point of this post is to say, “Keep trying things!” You never know what incredibly healthful foods you’ll rediscover from your past that you now enjoy.
What foods do you eat now that you hated a decade or less ago? How did you learn to like them?
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Jenny on 03 Jul 2008 at 9:21 am #
I agree, too, that without the processed foods that are so intensely flavored we can appreciate the more subtle flavors of fruits and vegetables. I know that in giving them up I’ve learned to appreciate foods that I never would of touched otherwise–turnips, beet greens and even a good quality cod liver oil.
Rachel on 03 Jul 2008 at 9:49 am #
Tastes definitely change. I now love beets (fresh, not canned) when once I wouldn’t touch them with a ten foot pole. And Kraft Mac and Cheese, which I frequently had for dinner in high school and college, tastes like chemicals. Bread and pasta taste bland and uninteresting, as do french fries, and yet 5 years ago if you asked if I could give those foods up I would have sworn it was impossible.
I crave salads and greens now. In fact, when I’m hungover (rare, I promise, but we all slip sometimes
) and my friends are chowing down a greasy breakfast, what I want to make me feel better is a big bowl of romaine with some walnut oil and lime juice. I eat sweetbreads and bone marrow and quail eggs and snails-all things that shock most people, but to me are far more delicious than a candy bar could ever be. I’m often shocked at how far I’ve come.
How did I learn to like them? I just kept trying them. Junk food was easy to cut out, because it was obviously bad and I didn’t feel good when I ate it. I had always liked fruit and veggies and meat, but I was told I ‘needed’ grains. Once I let go of the belief that grains were required to make me healthy and satiate me, I was able to compare them objectively to other foods and find them lacking in both taste and nutrition.
Brian on 03 Jul 2008 at 10:04 am #
I had a little bit of a different explanation when I tried to explain this to my son.
The tongue is a muscle. Like any muscle, it atrophies if it doesn’t get exercise. When your diet consists mostly of food created by machines, it always tastes the same: lots of salt, lots of sweet (usually added because the finished product would lack any flavor otherwise). Real food tastes different every time you eat it, depending on how it was raised/grown, when it was harvested, how fresh it is, how it’s cooked, and how it’s spiced. I can make a salad with the same ingredients every day for a week and it will taste different every time. I put different types and amounts of spices on my meat every time I cook it. Tonight’s salmon tastes completely different from the salmon I had three days ago.
It’s like working a different muscle every day. And over time, the things you think taste good change. And if you’re cooking your own food from basic ingredients, your skill at producing food that tastes good improves over time also.
My son asked why I stopped eating stuff like pizza, fried chicken, and bread. I told him they just don’t taste good to me any more; they’re too salty. Now that I eat stuff that doesn’t come heavily pre-salted, my tongue has become accustomed to a lower salt content in my food. The same goes for sweet foods, even overly sweet fruit (especially fruit juices).
JRF on 03 Jul 2008 at 11:12 am #
Today I tried fried ant larvae, I didn’t know what it was, and probably wouldn’t have tried them had I known. I also kind of wish I hadn’t tried them.
Craig on 03 Jul 2008 at 11:19 am #
This has been my experience- the past few months have brought me a weird (to my former self) love of yams and onions. The spinach jones kicked in hard last year. I think we slowly get re-animalized - we begin to taste what is IN our food as much as the tongue-assault of the processed food. I am much more aware of chemicals in food- how I went 30+ years immune to the aftertastes of some things, I don’t know!
Craig
Anna on 03 Jul 2008 at 12:06 pm #
My experience is the same. Around the age of 30 I noticed that I enjoyed much stronger tastes, things I had most detested earlier, such as olives. I think part of that was a job change that gave me the opportunity to travel, dine in better restaurants, and explore regional cuisine.
When I first started restricting sugars and starches ten years ago, plain food seemed so boring. After my pregnancy was over I went back to my unrestricted carb ways because it was easier and it fit my ingrained cooking habits. But now there are so many low carb recipes for support and inspiration that it now longer seems boring, in fact, just the opposite - starch and sugar dulls the other flavors. I have really learned to make the most of flavorful foods, rather than just counting carbs and making little piles of low carb foods (when I first had to do this for gestational diabetes, it was the height of the low fat/high carb era and I knew of no recipe support for low carb).
Commercial foods are so cloyingly sweet to me now, right from the first bite. Many vegetables taste not just tolerable, but really good to me now, because my taste receptors aren’t dulled from constant chemical and sugar assaults. I never used to add salt at the table because processed foods were already salty enough, but I find now that I like a touch of flaked or coarse unrefined sea salt, and it contributes still far less sodium than what I was consuming in earlier years (not that I fear salt, I think the salt thing is way overblown, but that’s another topic).
Stephan on 03 Jul 2008 at 12:48 pm #
I wonder how many times it’s going to take me to like stinky tofu? I think I shortened my lifespan by a few years the first time I tried it…
Leniza on 03 Jul 2008 at 1:21 pm #
That is what’s happening to me right now. I had given up processed food for a while when I started weaning myself off sugar. I was very quickly able to drink (and enjoy!) unsweetened coffee and yogurt. I just ate a piece of 85% chocolate, and I detested dark chocolate up until a couple of months ago. Even some aged cheeses are starting to taste good to me.
Still can’t do olives or bananas, though. The smells alone make me gag.
Debs on 03 Jul 2008 at 1:40 pm #
I think we’ll always dislike some foods, and learn to like others. It’s worth knowing whether you vaguely dislike something or have a strong, absolute aversion to it. I have a strong, absolute aversion to peanut butter that may or may not be a sign of a mild allergy, but I have no interest in trying to undo that. I don’t really want to develop a taste for eggplant.
But some of my tastes have changed. When I was sixteen, I developed my own definition for an acquired taste: something that you dislike every time you try it, but keep feeling vaguely intrigued to try more, until one day you like it. This happened with olives. It only took me about a month or so to acquire the taste, with my mother conveniently restocking a container of delicious gaeta olives in the fridge, and soon I was racing her to devour them. I still adore olives (Leniza, you can send me yours!).
Sometimes you just realize it’s time to try something again because you haven’t given it a chance in years. Crushes help; I started liking avocados when a cute girl in college was shocked that I hadn’t tried them since the second grade. I started liking fennel when a cute guy later on brought it on a picnic and I resolved there and then to start liking it (it helped too that I’d never eaten the fresh bulb raw and realized how delicious it was).
On the other side of the fence, I actually really enjoy accepting the challenge of helping a friend like a food they used to dislike, only if they’re up for trying of course. Sometimes it’s easy, like the friend who used to dislike pie. Right now I’m working on a friend who has never met a tomato he likes.
The bottom line: don’t decide until you try the best of something. The ripest, the most well-prepared, the most in-season. Then, if you’re up to it, try again.
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Scott Kustes on 05 Jul 2008 at 1:13 pm #
Brian, that’s a good explanation…kind of what I tried to convey above with trying all kinds of foods…there’s bound to be something that you like.
Stephan, perhaps some things aren’t meant to be liked.
Leniza, I can’t do bananas either. Love the flavor, hate the mushy texture. “Eat them earlier,” some say. But then the flavor isn’t developed to the point I like. So it’s either good texture, poor flavor or poor texture, great flavor. I used to love them though. Weird.
Debs, funny what a little interest in the opposite sex can make one try huh?
I think a good bit of it has come down to learning to use herbs and spices, along with stopping the assault on the taste buds with salt and sugar. Like you Anna, I find most commercially made foods overly sweet or overly salty. At our 4th of July picnic yesterday, there were store-bought cakes with that unbelievably sweet icing…I didn’t even have a smidgen cause I knew that it would be a pucker-up affair.
Cheers y’all
Scott
Ronny on 07 Jul 2008 at 12:44 am #
For, in my opinion, the ultimate example of this:
http://thenattoproject.com/
I tried this after reading their blog, and it works. I like natto now, although for health reasons I won’t eat soy any more… other than really high-end natto on very rare occasions.
You can learn to like anything, it’s all about positive associations and trying hard.
I do think you might find it hard to ‘learn’ to like complex dishes the way you can learn to like individual ingredients due to ingredients having multiple options in their final ‘taste’.
YMMV of course.
- Ronny
ega278 on 11 Jul 2008 at 1:20 pm #
Yep, tastes do change. When I was a kid I used to like to eat those Little Debbie style snacky cakes by the dozen. I’ve tried them a couple of times over the last few years and they just don’t do anything for me, they’re too sweet. Since they don’t appeal to me anymore I don’t have to worry about getting a craving for them ever again, thank god. So my taste for sugar has been severely reduced, but my desire for powerful tastes increased. I love garlic, LOTS of garlic, powerful hot sauce, very sour lemonade, etc. I remember as a kid I didn’t understand why my Dad didn’t eat much cake, ice cream, chocolate or the like because i knew it was delicious. I now see why he’s like that because I’m now the same way at 29 years of age with young kids that probably wonder the same thing about me.
Scott Kustes on 13 Jul 2008 at 10:39 am #
ega278, I find sweet tastes to be extremely overwhelming as well. And boy are artificial sweeteners nasty. We had a celebration at work the other day, which involved two different types of cocktails (I work for an “adult beverages,” i.e., liquor, company). One was a margarita with top quality tequila, but I took one sip and found it way too sweet. The other was made of Crystal Light, vodka, and blackberry liqueur…bleh! The Crystal Light made it WAY too sweet and the funky aftertaste of the aspartame coated my tongue for a good half hour. And here I used to have no problem downing Sugar Coated Sugar Bombs for breakfast.
Cheers
Scott
Colin Chambers on 22 Jul 2008 at 4:40 am #
Another fascinating article Scott. Again you’ve inspire me to comment further on my own blog at http://colchambers.blogspot.com/2008/07/changing-tests.html. I love the concept of learning to like foods because then you have a whole raft of psychology and common sense behind you that makes you realise you can like anything which is a very positive state of mind.
I like putting myself in control of my life and learning to love as many foods as possible is a really freeing approach.
good work
Col